Who to listen to

All of us, I am sure, will be able to name those people who have spoken positively into our lives - and even those who have spoken negatively into our lives!! How people speak into our lives often has an impact upon how we react to others! Either we go completely the other way or we totally embrace the words that have been spoken over us, and we continue to speak in the same mannerisms!!

We often hear people speaking about young people, and let's be honest, a lot of it is negative. But I wonder if some of the reaction from young people is due to the negative approaches demonstrated or shown to them in the first place?

Countering negative comments can be draining, tiring, stressful, and often leave people feeling thoroughly beaten up emotionally.

Somewhere, somehow, there needs to be - has to be - a culture change so the negativity is reduced and the positive is emphasised.

James, in his book in the Bible, refers to the tongue as a weapon, and he also suggests that at times it needs taming!!!

I wonder - when our tongue moves, when noises come from our tongues - is it a negative or positive noise that comes forth?

Do we build up, or do we knock down?

Do people feel believed in by us, or do they feel torn apart by us?

Jesus says in John 10.10 that he comes to bring life in all its fullness, but the devil comes to steal and destroy. Can we possibly change the culture and learn to live out of that fullness, enabling others to live out of that fullness, rather than allowing the stealing and destroying to take place?

As a leader, I know who are the life-giving talkers in my life, and who are the people who take away from that, so I know more and more whom to pay attention to. And I would want the same for any young person whom I work with - to know who to listen to - who are the encouragers and who are the ones who destroy!

Not only do I want to live a life of fullness, I am believing the same for young people all around me.

Consistency of Salt

I am no cook!!!!  But my taste buds work really well, and I know what I like and what I enjoy the taste of.

Why is this?
Well yes, part of it is to do with the fact that my tastebuds work, which I am very thankful for, but the more important part is the flavour and how the flavouring works.

Flavouring is what attracts us to eat something and to go back to it and even to enjoy eating it all over again. Let's be honest, if we don't like the taste of something, we ain't going to try it again!!

Salt is one of those key flavourings - certainly not the only one by any stretch - but a common one and key one for many at a meal time. And yes, it does flavour our food really well, but why?

One reason is the make-up of salt: its consistency enables it to do what it should do - it doesn't change into something else just because it engages with other food types. It is able to remain an influencing factor in our food because it remains as it is!!

Jesus talks about people being salt in Matthew, chapter 5. He refers to people being that influencing factor in the world and encourages us to be the salt that the world needs. I guess he says wanting us to keep our consistency and be that influencing factor that remains good, honest and as it should be.

We can only be the salt to the world if our consistency is right and we remain who we are meant to be.

So, can we live up to our call to be salt to the world?
Is our consistency right to enable us to be that salt?
Are we able to be that influencing flavouring to the world?

Engaging in a town wide vision

So, on the 6th December, 9 people from 3 local organisations, plus 4 local churches came together to explore and see what could be possible in engaging with young people across Harrogate.

We were aware that there were a number of people who weren't able to make the time, but were keen to engage and see something new and different take place.

Following a starting thought, plus some scene-setting, discussion focused around what was currently happening, and where the possible gaps might be. What became quickly apparent was that everyone at the table brought something to the discussion, but 4 key themes came from this first time together:
1: the need for the Church to come together in prayer and worship to engage together.
2: the need for full and proper research to gain as full a picture as possible to what was going on for young people across the area.
3: Engaging with organisations currently engaging with young people to see what they are doing, plus their perspective on any obvious gaps.
4: A vision statement for everyone to work from.

There will be much more to come from this, and it was great to have so many there who were passionate about seeing something new take place across the area. This has been a foundation-setting time, and from strong foundations, great things can be built.

Security

This morning i read from a Psalm that u2 made famous years ago, 40, but the first part of it really stood out for me at this time. Setting our feet upon a rock, making our footsteps firm, I wonder how this looks at this time of year??

At a time where the majority of songs sing about Joy to the world, and hope, I wonder how thousands of young people feel who have been let down, hurt, spoken poorly of, and are living painful lives. where is that security, where is that joy, where is that hope?

Many people find security in a number of different places at this time of year, family being around, presents under a tree, quality food, time with family and friends, and no doubt many other ways as well, but for those who face an uncertain future, feeling that there isn't anyone around, wondering even where they might be fed from, the vulnerability, helplessness of a baby comes into some kind of reality, as a baby knows nothing of what is happening around it and knows nothing of what lies ahead!!

So this Christmas time, where is your security? what does security look like to you? What would happen if some if not all of that security was taken away?

Maybe a bigger, harder question, could or should be, where can we be that security for some this Christmas? rather than focusing upon ourselves can we offer some form of security to others around us?